Every couple fights—it\u2019s how you fight that can determine the success of your relationship. This book teaches you to look beyond what you and your partner fight about, and discover the core issues that undermine your relationship.
In the midst of a disagreement, many couples ask themselves, \u201cWhat are we really fighting about?\u201d Sound familiar? As it turns out, breakups and divorce don\u2019t happen because couples fight, they happen because of how couples fight. In this much-needed book, Judith and Bob Wright—two married counselors and coaches with over thirty years of experience helping couples learn how to fight well—present their tried-and-true methods for exploring the emotions that underlie many relationship fights.
In this unique guide, you\u2019ll learn how to use disagreements as an opportunity to deepen your understanding of your partner, bring more intimacy to the relationship, strengthen your bond, and really learn from the conflicts and tensions that occur between you. You\u2019ll also learn how to navigate the fifteen most common fights couples have, including \u201cthe blame game,\u201d \u201cdueling over dollars,\u201d \u201cIf you really loved me, you\u2019d…,\u201d \u201ctold-you-so\u2019s,\u201d and more.
If you\u2019re ready to start fighting for your love, rather than against it, this book will show you how.